Fathers or Rapists...?

Shocking but true.Seems like fathers have taken up taken up a new a responsibility towards their girl child as rapist of the honor of their own daughters. Till date they were the one who were responsible to safeguard the honor of their daughters. Some even laid their life's for the purpose but of late savers have themselves become the destroyers. For girls the most secure place in the whole universe was their home but today they feel insecure there also. Who needs to be held responsible for it?

Such incidents are not confined to a particular segment of the society rather they are witnessed everywhere. Mothers are in the most challenging position in such cases as they have to select either their husband or their child if they want justice for their child. If they decide to keep quiet then also they are not secure as they will have to see her daughter suffering from her father in future. Its really a tough decision but now women have decided to be mothers rather than wives when it comes to the interest of their loved ones.

That was how the unscrupulous deeds of fathers came to notices of the masses. Fathers who have carried on such deeds are not at all ashamed of their deeds rather they try to justify it. Earlier the intensity of such cases were very rare but now such incidents have become common looking at the increasing numbers of incidents reported.

I feel no punishment will really do justice to the victim as they will never in their life forget it that their savior was only their destructor. Our judicial system should definitely do some thing so that the frequency of such incidents are reduced or is fully eliminated from society.

Law enforcers or law breakers...?

Police department has been entrusted with the responsibility of enforcing law in the country and to get hold of the people who are breaking law. Arrested people are punished on the basis of the evidence brought forward to prove their crime. This is the case with ordinary masses.

But what punished should be administered when people from police department only resort to crime.I feel punishment awarded to them should be more stringent, as they are committing knowing about the future implication of their deeds. If we go by stats then we can see that of late police personnel have indulged in big crime master minded by them.

Justice is delivered to the victims but it is often delayed. As said " Justice delayed is justice denied", so we can say that justice has been denied. Very often people are reluctant to file complaint when they witness any crime involving men in khaki. Few who dare to make it up find it very difficult to withstand for long in front of the threats being given to them

I feel that law should take special course of action while dealing with law enforcers when they turn to law breakers. So that people may be encouraged to raise voice against these people and are assured that they will not make an easy escape from the clutches of law.

Why are rich brads steeping to crime....?

People resort to crime only, when its the last option available to them. Sometime back it was poor or middle class people who had monopolized the arena of crime but now they have competitors in the field of crime even, shocking but true rich brads are steeping to crime. Reason for them stepping to crime is still unknown to most of us, as people step to this business only fro money. These rich brads who are financially sound what has urged them to crime is something which needs our attention.

Their victims and modus operandi is also high tech,which suits to their educational background. Most astonishing facts is they are doing it for the sake of money. They are getting fat pocket money every money to satisfy all their needs backed by credit cards in most of the cases, then why to adopt crime, as it may put an end to their career.I feel they are insulting the education taken by them from the best in town coeducational institutions.

To my utter shock I found few people who have been nabbed are police are none other than professionals like MBA's , software engineers and academic scholars who have got gold medals during their college days. Isn't it shocking? These are the people who are minting good money from various MNC's where they are employed to.

Thinking about those who take up to crime to out of compulsion as they don't have any other option available to them. They are willing to lead a decent life if given an opportunity. But here are people who are leading decent life in society but they are themselves want to ruin it for the reasons best known to them.

Train or Flight which one to choose?

All leading air carriers have increased its air fare due to ever increasing crude oil prices. I feel that this definitely is going to effect travelers mentality, now travelers may think of trains in case of covering short distance which could be of 45min to an hour by flight. I was booking a flight ticket from Bangalore to Cochin couple of days back to my utter surprise, I noticed that fare was 500rs and taxes were close to 2500bugs. Almost 5 times more the air fare.When I check it in train in AC class it was coming close to 1500 bugs. I decided to go by train then. Even in inter state bus the fare was same in AC. Why not to go by train or by bus instead of flight?

May be in case of some emergency I may prefer to go by flight, but in normal course of time I will go by train or bus which ever suits me the best. In recent past people preferred to travel by flight even for short distance reason was low cast air carrier like "Air Deccan". Most of us had made best use of it by flying to various destination of our choice by flight. Various air carriers had made good money out of it.

I feel now is the real challenge for them, as they may notice few flier to fly. I feel mostly business men would use it. Ordinary people may try to refrain from it, especially if they are traveling with family,which was not th case sometime back. We can't blame airlines for it,they were compelled to do it for their survival.

So next time when you are planning to fly which one will you chose ?

Do you think aarushi's father would have killed her?

Everyone has one unanimous decision when it comes to Aarushi murder case i,e justice to be delivered and let the real culprits be given the deserving punishment. As it now police has not been able to find a break through in this case. I think they are forgetting something " Justice delayed is justice denied".

The most astonishing fact is that police is trying to pin the crime on aarushi's parents, which most of us are finding difficult to digest. I strongly feel that her parents are innocents,if they would have killed her first that they would have done would be to hide the dead body at a far off place. No murderer would ever keep the dead body at his place, as then he would be the prime suspect of murder. If they really wanted to kill her, then they would have done it through some other means as both her parents were doctors, but the way how she has been murdered it seems that it has been done by someone who is criminal by nature. Murder lacks the efficiency required by a medical professional to commit it. The case it crystal clear murder has been committed by someone else. Can't police understand this simple stuff go in search of the real culprit? Instead of harassing innocent people.

If local police is not able to able real culprit ,then I feel case should be handed over to C.B.I to nab the offenders. People are readily cooperating with police, then also police is not able to find any clue? I feel by the time police find the real culprit he would have gone far away from the hand of police.

I just feel pity for Aarushi's parents who can't even sob at the demise of their teen daughter. Their grief is intensified by being termed as the killer of their daughter. I think people should think about it before making any statement.

Sexual harrasment at work place... a weapon or reality?

Sexual harassment at workplace is growing especially in MNC's. Its happening in all the reputed MNC's in India, which has been able to expose the real face of these companies. Earlier victims used to remain silent about it or quit jobs. But now they have decided to bring such things not only in the notice of the company but also to the notice of media. Because there are instances where in companies have tried to cover up the issues.

Today companies have come with special policies for their women employees, any kind of injustice or discrimination will not be tolerated by the company management and the culprit is sure to be punished for his deeds. Many companies have done it even, which has boosted the morale of the women employees in organizations.

But of late women have started misusing it, they have started framing men in fake sexual harassment cases. When companies investigate the matter they come to know that, the real culprit is none other than the complainant itself. Companies are at loss in such situation, as they themselves don't know what to do in such situations. The lone sufferer in such cases are men whose image/reputation is tarnished.Even though they have get clean chit but people may not forget it easily. In such situations men change jobs, which could be a loss for the company as well as the individual himself.

I feel some strict polices should be framed towards those women employees who try to frame innocent men in sexual harassment cases. I strongly feel that companies should also come up with sexual harassment polies for men also, where in men victims and culprits are women.

What punishment should be awarded for child molestation?

Shocking but true child molestation cases are growing at a faster than any other crime all over the world. What could be the reason for the sudden hike in such cases in comparison to past? Earlier it was confined to west but now it has made it entry to India even, which is evident from the cases being reported about it in newspapers daily.

Their is no discrimination of gender in this crime, boy or girl anyone could become victim to this crime. Earlier it was like such crimes were confined to the domestic help of the house holds, but now it has come to open fields,parks etc.How could someone even think of committing such crime to innocent children? More over in this crime victims age bar is also not specific, lesser the age of the child, higher is the chances of being prone to such crime.

Their are few NGO's who are trying their best to counsel the victims of such cases but then also, they find it difficult to bring such children back to normal track of life once again.Its difficult to erase memories of the incident from children's mind. But one thing I can say that most of the children in India are also victim to it, as only few go reported, rest don't report it due to fear. Mostly the offender are not strangers but are near and dear ones of the victims, which increases the intensity of crime.

When I thought about the possible punishment to be awarded to the guilty person I couldn't reach up to a conclusion, because it injures the present as well as the future life of the children. Mostly such children try to refrain from marriage in future life due to their past experience. They lose their innocence at very tender age.

I feel the punishment awarded to the guilty, should be some thing which is followed in Muslim country so that people think thrice before committing it.