Do you think aarushi's father would have killed her?

Everyone has one unanimous decision when it comes to Aarushi murder case i,e justice to be delivered and let the real culprits be given the deserving punishment. As it now police has not been able to find a break through in this case. I think they are forgetting something " Justice delayed is justice denied".

The most astonishing fact is that police is trying to pin the crime on aarushi's parents, which most of us are finding difficult to digest. I strongly feel that her parents are innocents,if they would have killed her first that they would have done would be to hide the dead body at a far off place. No murderer would ever keep the dead body at his place, as then he would be the prime suspect of murder. If they really wanted to kill her, then they would have done it through some other means as both her parents were doctors, but the way how she has been murdered it seems that it has been done by someone who is criminal by nature. Murder lacks the efficiency required by a medical professional to commit it. The case it crystal clear murder has been committed by someone else. Can't police understand this simple stuff go in search of the real culprit? Instead of harassing innocent people.

If local police is not able to able real culprit ,then I feel case should be handed over to C.B.I to nab the offenders. People are readily cooperating with police, then also police is not able to find any clue? I feel by the time police find the real culprit he would have gone far away from the hand of police.

I just feel pity for Aarushi's parents who can't even sob at the demise of their teen daughter. Their grief is intensified by being termed as the killer of their daughter. I think people should think about it before making any statement.

Sexual harrasment at work place... a weapon or reality?

Sexual harassment at workplace is growing especially in MNC's. Its happening in all the reputed MNC's in India, which has been able to expose the real face of these companies. Earlier victims used to remain silent about it or quit jobs. But now they have decided to bring such things not only in the notice of the company but also to the notice of media. Because there are instances where in companies have tried to cover up the issues.

Today companies have come with special policies for their women employees, any kind of injustice or discrimination will not be tolerated by the company management and the culprit is sure to be punished for his deeds. Many companies have done it even, which has boosted the morale of the women employees in organizations.

But of late women have started misusing it, they have started framing men in fake sexual harassment cases. When companies investigate the matter they come to know that, the real culprit is none other than the complainant itself. Companies are at loss in such situation, as they themselves don't know what to do in such situations. The lone sufferer in such cases are men whose image/reputation is tarnished.Even though they have get clean chit but people may not forget it easily. In such situations men change jobs, which could be a loss for the company as well as the individual himself.

I feel some strict polices should be framed towards those women employees who try to frame innocent men in sexual harassment cases. I strongly feel that companies should also come up with sexual harassment polies for men also, where in men victims and culprits are women.

What punishment should be awarded for child molestation?

Shocking but true child molestation cases are growing at a faster than any other crime all over the world. What could be the reason for the sudden hike in such cases in comparison to past? Earlier it was confined to west but now it has made it entry to India even, which is evident from the cases being reported about it in newspapers daily.

Their is no discrimination of gender in this crime, boy or girl anyone could become victim to this crime. Earlier it was like such crimes were confined to the domestic help of the house holds, but now it has come to open fields,parks etc.How could someone even think of committing such crime to innocent children? More over in this crime victims age bar is also not specific, lesser the age of the child, higher is the chances of being prone to such crime.

Their are few NGO's who are trying their best to counsel the victims of such cases but then also, they find it difficult to bring such children back to normal track of life once again.Its difficult to erase memories of the incident from children's mind. But one thing I can say that most of the children in India are also victim to it, as only few go reported, rest don't report it due to fear. Mostly the offender are not strangers but are near and dear ones of the victims, which increases the intensity of crime.

When I thought about the possible punishment to be awarded to the guilty person I couldn't reach up to a conclusion, because it injures the present as well as the future life of the children. Mostly such children try to refrain from marriage in future life due to their past experience. They lose their innocence at very tender age.

I feel the punishment awarded to the guilty, should be some thing which is followed in Muslim country so that people think thrice before committing it.

Honour Killing....why and for whom?

Honour killing is making headlines in all the papers these days, whats the reason for it? Its not confined to a particular region or state, it's the status of most of the states in India. There has been sudden increase in such cases in the recent times.What is the message that they are trying to convey by it is something which most of us are not able to understand?

Is marring someone whom you love a sin? I don't think, then why this killing? What do the killer want to prove to the society? Most shocking part of it is that, the killer are none other than the parents. Whom will the children trust, if their parents themselves are going to become desirous of their blood?

I don't feel any religion teaches to spread the messages of hatred, rather it always guide us to spread the messages of love. How could parents muster courage to killing the fruit of their love, for whom they done so much in their life? Sacrificed their happiness for the happiness of their child. Devoted their life for their kids and their happiness. Doesn't these thoughts come to their mind when they themselves kill them.

What do the get y doing so? I don't feel they get any thing in life, rather they loose everything in life and find themselves behind the bars. Is such killing would have been able to create some awareness then young couples would have refrained from getting married to their loved ones but they still listening to their heart. I feel killer should lesson from it and stop it as their threat are going to yield them desired results.

Women stripping in public in India

We are living in 21 century,where equal rights are given to both men and women. But I feel it is only confined to words. it never get transpired to deeds. Had it been then incidents of Indian women stripping in public would not have surfaced? Indian culture is something which has been respected world wide, when such incidents make headline of newspaper it's a matter of shame for India.

The latest incident which i came across was of women, who was raped by two youth and police officials had refused to register F.I.R seeking various reasons.I feel they underestimated the female, as she belonged from a middle class family. Had they registered the complaint the police department would have been able to avoid infamy. They were doing injustice to women who had already been sufferer of pain of losing her honor "most valuable asset of a women".

This urged the female to strip in public, after which her complaint was lodged.It was then the police department really came into action and were trying to cover the matter as usually done by them.In most of the cases of women stripping in public the culprit is police who refuse to register complain women who need help and security from them.

Is it really justified that in India women have to strip in public just to get a complaint register in a police station, that also in India were women are worshiped in the form of various goddesses like "laxmi and parvati" ? Where has the great glory of Indian culture and tradition gone?

Should vechiles be switched off at traffic signals?

Today while coming to office I realized one thing that there are very few people who switch off their vechiles when get stuck at traffic signals. Most of them they prefer to keep their vechiles switched on, there by wasting fuel and polluting the environment at large.

I have noticed that even in traffic signals where, time is indicated people prefer to keep their vechiles on.At some places where it heavy traffic and vechiles are halted for 3 mins even then they vechiles are on. Why? The fuel which they are wasting then is of no use for them or the environment around.

Can't understand one thing what really motivates them to keep to do this act. On world environment day people take oath that they will do this do that but when the time comes they forget it straight away.

I feel we are addicted to vechiles these days. Reason even if we have to cover small distance we prefer to use our car or bike, why? Those distance which could be covered by foot should be done that done by foot.It has 2 benefits, first it will act as an exercise for us and secondly we will save money on petrol and parking .And it will be a unique experience for all of to come out of our routine life from cars and bikes.

So are you with me towards saving our earth and bit of money.?

Are human lives so economical?

Couple of times while reading newspaper I come across newses relating to murders/suicides being committed for matter which are too small to from a cause for it to happen.

Last week while reading newspaper I read about an incident where in an ice cream vendor was killed just for 50 rs. After reading it I was really shocked because the purpose of this murder was not so big that a person had to lose his life. A small argument over payment for the sale of ice cream had lead a family lose its bread winner. Who will look after his family now comprising of his wife, new born baby and his ailing parents?

Another incident was a married was killed by her husband just for a ceiling fan.During marriage he was paid well in the form of dowry.As summer approached he demanded ceiling fan from his wife as part of dowry, which she refused to ask her parents. The result she was burned alive by pouring kerosene oil on her. Was ceiling fan so expensive when compared to her life?

How can human being kill other human being for such small issues? Life is the most precious gift of god given to us human being to enjoy our lives and let others enjoy theirs. The way how this killing is taking place soon a day will come when people will start killing other for no causes only.

Are Etiquettes required in multiplexs even?

Last Saturday I went out with my friends for night shows, at a multiplex to watch a "Narniya".I had a movie hall next to my house where even availability of ticket was not a problem for me but we preferred a multiplex to really enjoy the movie imaging the crowd would be decent.But to our utter disgust we were highly disappointed as we were not able to enjoy the movie to the extend to which we had expected.

The reason was cell phone a necessary evil carried by people these days with them. I can't understand one thing why don't people either switch off their cell or put it in silent mode so they can enjoy the movie and let others also do the same.You have come here to enjoy so enjoy why do you want to bother yourself and others?

The biggest distraction is the ringtone of cell phones which is too loud and distracts the attention of the people because the viewers get so involved in the movie that at times he doesn't even come that his cell is ringing.Then he will pick the call from his seat and start conversing which create inconvenience for others. It was this thing which had irritated me a lot as I couldn't listen to what is being said.

I think we all should try to keep our cell on silent mode while watching movie or while attending some conference. While receiving the call also we should go an isolated place so that others are not disturbed because of our call. Why should we give an opportunity to others to say us question our etiquettes?

Online lottery, do they really exist?

Everyday in newspaper we can come across an incident of online lottery fraud. Strangest part of such incidents is that, the victims mostly the literate people, who have some idea of such frauds. One thing which I can't understand is that how come literate people become victims to such incidents. Is it their greed for money which put them in situation where in they end up shelling money from their own pocket for no returns or something else.

Most of the people who assess net these have at least some idea about such fraud. Whenever I get such mail I just delete it without even reading it. Such mails they never come in inbox most of the time you can find them at spam only very rarely they do come in inbox.

Even cyber crime department officials are not able to locate fraudsters as the information furnished by them to the victim turns out to be false most of the time. Hence the chances of failure in nabbing the culprits is quite high.

I feel " prevention is better than cure " policy should be adopted to avoid becoming prey to such incidents..

Do you agree with or not?

Terror attack an unanswered question

When will the terror attack come to an end is a question which is still unanswered by many? Today no part of the world is really a safe place to live,as we can't expect when we will come under terrorist attack. The blast in Gujarat is one such example of terrorism.

Every time such terrorist attack occur there are agencies who are ready to take claim for it. What do they achieve by doing it? As such attacks only leads to destruction and nothing else. Only sufferers of such attacks are innocent people who lose their dear ones. Destruction of infrastructure etc. What do these terrorist's achieve actually by taking the life of the innocent people? Do they get what they want? No, never this only leads to widespread agony among the people towards such terrorist organizations.

Whatever reasons these terrorist organization give the ultimate loss has always been to the masses, who have lost some great leaders like Indira Gandhi, Rajiv Gandhi, Benazir Butto and many other to name a few.

I think its high time these terrorist organization should try to stop terrorizing people and adopt some other means to put forward their demands to whom ever they want, otherwise a day will when these terrorist attack will not be able to terrorize people any more.

Could happiness be found?

In todays life each one of us are countering a common problem, lack of happiness in our life's? Who is to be blamed for it? A question an answered so far. I feel its us because now we have set standards for our happiness also, like for any other thing in our life.

Citing an example of yet to be a metro city like Bangalore, here people are not human beings from Monday- Friday but are more like machines. They enjoy themselves only on Saturdays and Sundays. To relieve themselves from stress and to find big happiness in life they are ready to go to any extend today. Drinking, smoking, shopping, movies, hanging out with friends, long drives all are the unique ways adopted by people to find happiness but all are of no use.

I think we should not set standards to find happiness rather try to find it in every small thing we do. We should try to find happiness in others happiness a difficult task but will really make you feel good. Try it once at least.

Happiness and sorrows both are with in us so it is us who should has to decided upon what we really wanna select in our life. Don't search for happiness outside search it with in your self only.

More cars or alternate source of Energy

Today everybody is planning to buy a car for himself, ignoring the fact that petrol prices have reached highest and is expected to rise in future also. Its not the people who are crazy to buy cars but the companies are also busy in bringing out new models out of their factory, to woo their prospective customer.

The effort put forward by TATA in bringing out "nano" 1 lakh rs car was a revolution in car industry. But i feel TATA should have also taken up the initiative to develop car which could run on alternate source of energy apart from petrol and diesel.

I feel the best energy to be used as an alternate source of energy for cars would be solar energy which is found in abundance. We are busy planning as to which car we should shop for, ignoring the fact that without petrol they will of no use so before they make huge investment in procuring a car find it of use later due inadequate supply of petrol.

Its high time that companies should focus their attention to this point and take a decision. Any company who take up the initiative first will definitely get the first mover advantage. As TATA got due to NANo.