Season of "Swayamwar"

Seems like parents are in no mood to let their single ones to remain in bachelor state for long. Eligible bachelors also don't have concrete excuses to evade marriage proposals. Last year it was recession but this year market has picked up and many new job opportunities have also cropped up.

My case is no different, last year was able to save myself but seems like no excuse is going to work. My mom did come to bangalore for attending a swayamwar being organized by "Shri Narayana Guru Samiti, Bangalore"on 26th Jan 2010. There were 400 registrants for the meet. We took our respective seats as allotted by the volunteer.

Programme began at 11 am by lighting the lamp, soon profile of guys and girls were displayed on screens with specific details. Each individual was allotted a profile number, prospective brides / grooms need to note down. I handed over my notepad and pen to mom and asked her to select her daughter in law. Till lunch time my mom had selected 4 girls, I took the details of the girls to make our horoscope.

By the end of the event we had shortlisted 8 girls, now my parents need approach our astrologer to match horoscope followed by personal meeting etc. I am getting nightmare thinking about it, my parents are consoling me saying things will be fine don't worry.

Is their any way for all eligible to escape marriage till they are prepared for it?

A trip to the new flyover from bangalore to hosur

Traffic is major concern for commuters in any part of the world. People hate it but can't avoid it. Bangalore is no different, monday to friday people struggle to reach office and back home. Large number of fly overs have been throughout to decongest traffic in city. Road connecting Bangalore and electronic city was the busiest due to the presence of software giants like 'infosys,wipro & IBM'.

A giant flyover was being built to connect city to silicon valley covering 10km in all. Finally it was inaugarated on 23/1/2010. I wanted to go for a ride but was not getting a partner, luckily my friend dropped in to accompany him to petrol pump. As we were talking 2 more friends joined us and we all planned to drive to the fly over.

Within minutes we were ready for the drive with bikes, helmets & jackets. Had to struggle a bit to find the entry point, I told my friends before hand we would be driving slow. Once on the fly over we enjoyed the ride fullest on our bikes. They was parking lot on the way to stop for sometimes. Parking area was almost full with people stopping and posing for photos. We also took some snaps on our mobile and went ahead

We could easily peep into the campus of IBM, which was just a dream for most of us. Entire trip was enjoyable but the biggest joy was being able to use the fly over before most of my friends.

Mom @ bangalore

Who doesn't want to stay with their parents? I guess all of us reach would love to do so but can't turn their dream to reality. Students & bachelors working at different place miss their parents most than others. They eagerly wait for their parents or relatives visit mostly to enjoy home made food.

My mom has been trying to come down to Bangalore since I moved to my new room an year ago. Finally she came down this sunday to attend a family function. I was very happy to have her here. Though her bus was suppose to come by 7 a.m I was their at bus stop by 6 a.m thinking what if bus comes early bus reached @ 6.45 a.m.

This was mom's first visit to bangalore so was bit protective. No sooner did the bus stop than I got into it to find mom. She was standing in front of me and I was searching her. We unloaded the luggage and headed towards home. Cleaned room a day before to create good impression as my parents are aware about my lazy nature.

After freshning up we had our breakfast together dad had send chapatties. Then went to bed as both of us were feeling lousy. Mom was tired due to journey and I hve the habit of waking up late on sundays.

Seems like mom will be with me for a fortnight but will surely try to extend it for a month, shouldn't I?

A friends "Bachelors Party"

Who doesn't enjoy their freedom especially guys? Guys doesn't want to take any tension life as they are interested to lead a cool life. But such things can happen only in fairy tales not in reality. Marriage is a barrier to a guys rocking life as post marriage he is answerable to his wife. Wherever he does his better half needs to be informed about it. As soon as a guy is about to about to get married his friends throw a bachelors party to remind him that his days of freedom are numbered.

On of my friend is going to tie knot on 26th Jan 2010. Today he will be leaving for his home town to return back as a family man. Yesterday was his bachelors party, a night for him to remember before marriage. Party was rocking but had few bachelors like me, others were married guys ready to enjoy their lost days.

There was drinks, music, etc to entertain an individual but the going to be groom was not happy as we friends were pulling his legs. We felt it was the last time when he can be himself without any restriction and enjoy things to the fullest. Best part was all married guys were sharing their experiences with to horrify him but these talk didn't change his mind. He told" I am ready for the after effect of marriage, you guys need not worry about it. Anyways I am planning to discuss it with your respective wives." That was a bouncer, expression of all married turned bachelors was worth watching.

Didn't realize how time passed by and it was time to bid goodbye, as most of us had office next day. We all wished him "happy married life" and left for our houses. Don't know who's next to get married but "bachelors party is for sure"...

Great service from whirlpool washing machine

Kids at time create menace which cause big problem for grown ups. Something like that happened at my cousins place 2 weeks ago, when a 3 year old kid turned the timer of washing machine in reverse order, resulting it to stop all its function. Washing machine is more of a necessasity for us than comfort us as my bhabhi has back problem and our maid has also left us 1 month ago. Its not easy to locate on in short span of time though the hunt is on.

My cousin brother went to the shop from where we got the machine, to send their service people as soon as possible. Though they promised but didn't sent anyone, with every passing day clothes were piling up at home. Finally bhabhi called me one day to get whirlpool service center details from net.

Within in minutes I collected information from net and called their customer service and gave our residential address along with 3 set of contact numbers to reach us. They gave me complain number and told within 2 hours will receive a call from their end. 4 hrs post lodging the complaining called them back as we didn't receive the call. Then customer care executive told me by evening 8 pm concerned person will call me.

When I reached home at around 7 pm found washing machine has started its function once again, as whirlpool had sent their service engineer and he did fix the problem in short span of time. Was surprised to see their dedication towards customer grievance. Hats off to these guys who keep their words when it comes to satisfaction.


The day when bhabhi called me to check details from net, bhaiya had planned to get a new washing machine even though we got this machine an year ago. Now have no worries as I know whenever our washing machine develop some trouble its engineers will be their to help in short span of time...

Chilling cold in Bangalore..

Bangalore was known as air conditioned city few years ago. That time when people used to build houses, they won't keep the option for ceiling fans thinking it won't be of any use to them. Slowly people felt the need for fans now then can't survive without ACs. Drastic change in climatic behavior from then till now.

When I came to Bangalore 4 years ago only thing which was liked by me was the chill mornings time, which made it difficult to leave bed. But wanted hot water to take bath, without it can't even think of getting inside bathroom. People don't sweat here frequently, until and unless they do so strainful job.

Winters were normal here, people have hardly seen foggy morning for long hours as witnessed in Delhi, U.P etc. As I had spend my childhood days in U.P. used to miss the foggy days experienced during winter vacation. It was great fun sitting in front of bon fire full day, walking on terrace in afternoon, having tasty hot snacks in evening, warm sleep under heavy quilt at night.

But this year for the first time had seen foggy morning in bangalore, something bit unusual here. Was very happy, reminded me of my stay in U.P. Took my bike to capture the fantastic view outside, made one full round of my locality. It was wonderful experience, climbed terrace to enjoy more of scenatic beauty.

In the midst of excitement forget to wear woolen clothes, as a result of which now am sitting in office with a sweater and a jacket over to keep my body warm. Had an attack of sinus which had forced me to do do all these along with medicines and inhalation daily. Never mind to gain something good one need to make some sacrifices.

I will repeat the same thing if bangalore experiences foggy morning ahead. Doctors are their to handle rest....